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Halloweens past + a mom-friendly costume

As a child I loved dressing up for Halloween. I loved telling my mom what I wanted to be, helping her pick up supplies at the fabric store, and watching her sit behind the sewing machine to make my dream reality. Halloween was homemade, simple, and fun at our house. But sometime in my twenties I stopped enjoying getting in costume and eventually John and I created an annual tradition of going out to dinner for Halloween. Looking back I realize that part of that was out of protection for my heart. When you struggle with infertility and long for children of your own every single holiday is hard, even Halloween. I wished I had a little one to dress up and take trick-or-treating. So for several years we went out on a date and left Halloween behind. Bah humbug… or whatever the Halloween version of that is.

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(Halloween in California… my sister the cat, my brother the bat, and me the clown – mom made all our costumes!)

Then Mareto came home and eight months later we had a cute fuzzy little lion who had just learned how to walk. We were ridiculously proud and enthusiastic parents walking him from shop to shop in Colonial Williamsburg for his first Halloween. The next year Arsema had been home just three weeks and she was a tiny thing – just over 10 lbs. They were Thing 1 & Thing 2 and I loved it. I even donned a “cat in the hat” top to walk around with them as they went door to door in my parents’ neighborhood. Last year they were an airplane and a lady bug and once again I just put on a sweatshirt for trick-or-treating because the focus was on the kids and their costumes… not mom.

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(He wasn’t just any lion, he was the courageous lion – red ribbon on the tail & badge of honor on his chest!)

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(I put Arsema in the ergo for trick or treating and sewed a white circle that said “Thing 2” on the outside of it. Also – that blue hair spray smelled really strong and made his hair super crunchy. It was also really flammable.)

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(Arsema insisted on carrying her own candy bucket – even when it was way too heavy and she was literally dragging it along the street. She wouldn’t let us touch it! Mareto’s airplane lasted longer than I expected, but he couldn’t wait to take it off. Hoping this year he tolerates his costume a bit better!)

This year the kids are in school and Arsema’s class is having a big Halloween party and then going trick-or-treating at the downtown shops. The parents are all supposed to come help and the teachers made a point to say that they encourage us to dress up… because they have to! Because I love her teachers and think they are wonderful I will dress up… sort of. I put together my “tiger/cat” costume in about 30 minutes, and I spent less than $10 at walmart, and most important it’s simple enough that I won’t feel ridiculous all day.

What you need:

  • A black and white (or black and gray) striped shirt. I happened to have a turtle neck like this already. Score.
  • Black pants. Already had these too.
  • Tiger ears. I found mine for $1.97 at walmart. (they were labeled white tiger ears, but I think they look more like zebra ears… oh well)
  • Black ballet flats. I found mine for $5 at walmart, but most of you probably already have a pair.
  • Black lace. Got mine for $1 at walmart.
  • Hot glue gun. I already have one.
  • Black sparkle nail polish. I found mine for $1.97 at walmart.
  • Black face paint or eye liner. I already had the eye liner so I will just use that.

The only crafty thing I had to do was add the lace to my shoes to spice them up a little. Just hot glue a strip of lace on the inside of either side of the shoe and tie in a bow. Then put on your pants, shirt, ears, and shoes. Use the eye liner to draw whiskers and paint your nose. Paint your nails sparkly black for a little extra fun. Viola! You’re a tiger… or a cat… or a zebra, whatever.

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and a shot of the shoes, just for fun…

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I seriously phoned this one in, but this is already more than I would normally do! I put far more effort into the kids costumes and I can’t wait to share them with you – particularly Arsema’s! It’s ridiculously adorable, and fluffy, and pink, and fancy… and she helped me come up with it! And nowΒ I’m off to a pre-school Halloween party!

 

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