I read the book Crazy Love by Francis Chan this week. It is amazing, eye – opening, convicting, motivating, encouraging, and so much more! One of the things in this book that really struck me were 2 separate “profile” chapters. Early in the book Chan writes about the profile of the Lukewarm … much later in the book he writes about the profile of the Obsessed. I wanted to give you both lists today because they are so amazing … but that would have been too much to digest in one day. So I’ll start with the lukewarm list – but come back tomorrow for the list about obsessed people. It will blow your mind!
This is from the fourth chapter of Crazy Love…
Profile of the Lukewarm:
Lukewarm people attend church fairly regularly. It is what is expected of them, what they believe “good Christians” do, so they go.
Lukewarm people tend to choose what is popular over what is right when they are in conflict. They desire to fit in both at church and outside of church; they care more about what people think of their actions (like church attendance and giving) than what God thinks of their hearts and lives.
Lukewarm people don’t really want to be saved from their sin; they want only to be saved from the penalty of their sin. They don’t genuinely hate sin and aren’t truly sorry for it; they’re merely sorry because God is going to punish them. Lukewarm people don’t really believe that this new life Jesus offers is better than the old sinful one.
Lukewarm people are moved by stories about people who do radical things for Christ, yet they do not act. They assume such action is for “extreme” Christians, not average ones. Lukewarm people call “radical” what Jesus expected of all His followers.
Lukewarm people rarely share their faith with their neighbors, coworkers, or friends. They do not want to be rejected, nor do they want to make people uncomfortable by talking about private issues like religion.
Lukewarm people gauge their morality or “goodness” by comparing themselves to the secular world. They feel satisfied that while they aren’t as hard-core for Jesus as so-and-so, they are nowhere as horrible as the guy down the street.
Lukewarm people say they love Jesus, and He is, indeed, a part of their lives. But only a part. They give Him a section of their time, their money, and their thoughts, but He isn’t allowed to control their lives.
Lukewarm people love God, but they do not love Him with all their heart, soul, and strength. They would be quick to assure you that they try to love God that much, but that sort of total devotion isn’t really possible for the average person; it’s only for pastors and missionaries and radicals.
Lukewarm people love others but do not seek to love others as much as they love themselves. Their love of others is typically focused on those who love them in return, like family, friends, and other people they know and connect with. There is little love left over for those who cannot love them back, much less more those who intentionally slight them, whose kids are better athletes than theirs, or with whom conversations are awkward or uncomfortable. Their love is highly conditional and very selective, and generally comes with strings attached.
Lukewarm people will serve God and others, but there are limits to how far they will go or how much time, money, and energy they are willing to give.
Lukewarm people think about life on earth much more often than eternity in heaven. Daily life is mostly focused on today’s to-do list, this week’s schedule, and next month’s vacation. Rarely, if ever, do they intently consider the life to come.
Lukewarm people are thankful for their luxuries and comforts, and rarely consider trying to give as much as possible to the poor. They are quick to point out, “Jesus never said money is the root of all evil, only that the love of money is.” Untold numbers of lukewarm people feel “called” to minister to the rich; very few feel “called” to minister to the poor.
Lukewarm people do whatever is necessary to keep themselves from feeling too guilty. They want to do the bare minimum, to be “good enough” without it requiring too much of them.
Lukewarm people are continually concerned with playing it safe; they are slaves to the god of control. This focus on safe living keeps them from sacrificing and risking for God.
Lukewarm people feel secure because they attend church, made a profession of faith at age twelve, were baptized, come from a Christian family, vote Republican, or live in America. Just as the prophets in the Old Testament warned Israel they they were not safe just because they lived in the land of Israel, so we are not safe just because we wear the label Christian or because some people persist in calling us a “Christian nation.”
Lukewarm people do not live by faith; their lives are structured so they never have to. They don’t have to trust God if something unexpected happens – they have their savings account. They don’t need God to help them – they have their retirement plan in place. They don’t genuinely seek out what life God would have them live – they have life figured and mapped out. They don’t depend on God on a daily basis – their refrigerators are full and, for the most part, they are in good health. The truth is, their lives wouldn’t look much different if they suddenly stopped believing in God.
Lukewarm people probably drink and swear less than average, but besides that, they aren’t very different from your typical unbeliever. They equate their partially sanitized lives with holiness, but they couldn’t be more wrong.
“I know your deeds, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were either one or the other! So, because you are lukewarm – neither hot nor cold – I am about to spit you out of my mouth.“
Revelation 3:15 – 16
Each bullet point caused some serious thinking on my part… I really examined my own life to see if I was guilty of being lukewarm. I would encourage you to do the same thing today. Then please come back tomorrow to read about people who are obsessed with Jesus!
As a side note … I would appreciate your prayers today. This is the 2nd anniversary of the day we lost our second child. It’s always a tough day for me as I try not to think about it too much and dwell on the traumatic events of that day. I am choosing to praise God today for the little life He blessed us with (no matter how short the time) and be thankful knowing we will see our baby in heaven! God is good … all the time!
Hi, I’m Lauren. I’ve been blogging here since 2009 – back when this was a journal of sorts. Then it became more of a community, and here we are today. My day to day life probably looks a lot likes yours. I am the driver of the mini van, shuffling two amazing kids to and from school, dropping off forgotten library books and popping in to surprise them at lunch. I log many hours chatting with my friends at the edge of the playground while our kids run and climb off bit of energy. In addition to grocery runs and dishes and laundry, I research therapies, call specialists, manage appointments, and prepare for IEP meetings. I write in the mornings and crash hard at night. I am a wife, a mother, and a friend. And I'm glad you're here.
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